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Host talks too much and fast Wanted to know more about going from blame to solution

I loved him four years and he dispised me. I forgave him several times and he repeated his pattern of picking fights , abandonments for days and cheating. He was back and forth and made me sad. Hiis words of love were fake and he lead me on with no intentions to marry me. He said he was afraid that he might leave me if we get married. I once thaught we would grow together like he would say. He talked marraige with other women as well. I think he talked marraige to keep us women hanging on. He broke my heart without regard. He is a 71 year old Scorpio older than me. He is my ex made me feel unworthy when he is the unworthy one. I wish his karma of remorse for losing me.

I gotta stop blaming I need to fix my mindset tbh it’s hard

A narcissist won’t try to fight for you if you walk away. They immediately find a new fling.

I will not interfere w/whatever a narc is going thru drama 🎭 of any sort. I sit back and observe because, I figured it is their fault due to control; manipulation; or wanting attention. #damshame Thanks Dr. Ramani🙏🏾😊💕💯‼️. I don’t communicate too much, only if they start the conversation because they’re not listening and I’m not wasting my time and energy on them. #selflove

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Am speechless.

This discussion is one of the best I have ever heard on the topic of Narcissism. Thank you!! 😊🤗 You will NEVER win against a narcissist. You will NEVER get closure from a Narcissist. You CANNOT fix or save them from themselves. You CANNOT anthropomorphize them because they are not like other human beings. A Narcissist is the emotional equivalent of a black hole in outer space. It is in their nature to consume everything in their path and they will not stop until they draw their last breath. This need is so powerful that they will do anything to get what they want even if it is to their own detriment. The best thing you can do is get out as soon as you can and never look back. One more thing… The carrot they dangle over your head…the promise that if you sacrifice everything on their alter that you will be rewarded? It’s an illusion. There is no carrot.

I absolutely love Evy ❤ I find it weird because when I communicate the way Evy does I get looked down upon, degraded and have people being more confronting with me ect but when I’m more passive I still get degraded at times and infantilised but I get treated better. I do also get taken advantage of more when passive too It’s weird to me and the only thing I can put it down to is Value score. Evy has a high value score so she is going to have more respect when presenting this way. I on the other hand am disabled and cannot work so I have a low value score. This might be the missing piece to the puzzle I have been trying to figure out

Now wait a min : That boundary One. He told me He's looking for my Boundry and Learning about me and guess what I think that was "Knowledge", that he's intrested in. But but but - He also told me , he have never think He would fell for me, but he did fell for me becouse I always give him a Baby vive and He's worried that If someone else see that I'm an idiot , Thay can use me in bad way. And everytime I used to do a mistake He would have maintain my mistake with punishment. Everytime He would tell me 1st That's is what Is it then He'll do it.

If you are cheating and I know instinctively I too will do the same so that I don’t focus on your actions so I don’t lose my confidence and self esteem and for me to have the strength to not blow up and get emotional with you. I’m not confronting I’m not saying anything. But I can’t stay the same and be a wife and serve and maintain and do for you knowing you have broken our vows. I’m not interested in devaluing or blaming myself but I will self reflect on why u did it understanding I played a part and take responsibility. At some point we both need to be honest and stop or divorce. But I’m not asking questions or going crazy and driving you to feel like I’m crazy and you are with someone who is more easier to be with. I can’t love you more than u love me I can’t be more faithful and loyal than you are. I’m going to give as much as you do. I’m never going to be so dedicated while you cheat and I know it and absorb all that hurt so that when we divorce I’m so traumatized that I’m bitter and a complete monster to the next person. Nope. I will find a guy who will still remind me that I’m great and desirable while u get ur needs met.

This advice can apply to all areas of your life!

Sry , you can’t compare money with sex.. Being used for sex it’s much worse . I lose money ,, I will get them back. Being touched by a man , won’t go away! So please men who cry over they put money ,,, grow up And I think men who sleep around is a big red flag.. that’s why I don’t date anymore .. I lose respect for men who do that

I love this so much. It makes me realize that in my past relationship I valued stage 2 so much when stage 4 didn't even exist - nothing was built because he would pull it down 10-30 percent in and we'd restart again and again.

Another fantastic episode!

It’s late, it may be me, but he lost me when he started talking about the cold blooded. There is no worse rage than narcissistic. That’s not cold-blooded. that’s fierce hot anger! Much Love

Let’s keep in mind he is not a mental specialist on the psychological or neurological disorders or functions. These are purely opinions. Much Love.

OMG. I need therapy. I have experienced all of theses with my husband. I feel like I am losing my mind. I am physically ill. I have uncomfortable crying. I live in a royal area so there is no options for therapy. I need help

You are definitely describing my friend/situationship I wanted to communicate so badly with him. Didn’t want to lose the friendship but it feels way too disrespectful ( he is respectful to everyone else in his life) and yes , the silence is emotionally abusive and manipulative. I want and deserve much more and a conversation to end on good terms if at all possible.

this happened to me in my last relationship.. it was a very subtle thing as spanish learning, he got me into spanish learning...when I started learning he used to show off how much he knows about it....and then when I gradually progressed and told him look I am being able to express my emotions is spanish, or order in spanish, he went all mute... like I did something bad. he became all silent, his face down, because I was doing better at something he introduced me to.

What a power couple 💗

Narcissism is actually demonic

She’s so beautiful because she has embraced herself so well

14:24 thank you ❤

Watching porn is also a kind of cheating... so 95% of men are cheating.

Puras verdades porfavor

Dr. Ramani is Awesome!! I have been healing for the past two years. I discovered Dr. Ramani when I had gone into hiding bec. I left my home bec. my ex had punched me in my stomach. One of Dr. Ramani's video came across my ph after I had spoken to someone at the Domestic hotline. That night I finally realized exactly what I had been dealing with. I have shared Dr. Ramani's videos with my friends, family and some coworkers. I love how easy it is to understand her , how she educates you about what you have experienced. I wish her continued success. 😊😊 She is so down- to -earth. I remember when she said write down everything you remembered all the things you experienced. This really helps to remind yourself why you left the relationship and why that relationship isn't healthy for you.

I have met so many of these who I thought were great guys and turned out to be hell bringers, liars, master manipulators and deceivers. I do try to remember that not all nice people are narcissist. Test them by trying to get them to show empathy. Sometimes they can mimic it but usually they have zero reaction. This is how you tell what they are.

To me honesty is the best policy. Trust God in ALL our ways.

Thank you Lisa ❤ I love listening to you talk you help a lot of woman and me be strong

What she says is so true. If you dont have an instantaneous attraction you have nothing. Thats why its called chemistry. 😊

Partnership is a give and take. When thats placed out of balance issues can arise. I still have fights with my partner its necessary but as long as you can come together afterwards and explain what happened then you can move forward but if there is a pink elephant in the room and no one is addressing it dont expect to move forward anytime soon. 😊

There are also con couples as well. They work as a team to con women.

Thank you.💖🙏🏽

You need to look into secret societies on that serial thing, i think his math is wrong.

I have systematically been disensitized by military and government officials in my family by abuse. I no longer cry over people in my family even if i want to. I will cry over an animal who is hurt or try to help others though.

I had a man who would not call and initiate. I left. I want to be pursued. I am NOT calling you until I know he will marry me or make me his public girlfriend. I am NOT going to be that kind of woman.

This is how women get trapped and trafficked by a con man narcissist.

scary concept really

Yes i had a narcissist say right in front of me, "this is going to be easy."

this hit me hard! I am going through it! needed to save this and will listen to it again

14 minutes in wow she is the real one, I am glad I dropped by ❤

From my experience women need to be more thorough...and if a man doesn't like that, then their not the one. Any decent man knows how some men are and will give you that time to get to know them. Any man that rushes you has something to hide or is a con man/narcissist.

It's all in her book! Buy the book, buy the book... 🙄🙄🙄

I engaged yesterday:'( Its like I forgot... Sadly it didnt end well, and i just feel awful coming out of it. I said hurtful things too and got angry in the process of pushing back and standing up for myself. i really don't like getting angry though and saying hurtful things:(

For some reasons, I love these women so much, they are a blessing ❤❤

I’m an ENTP. Only 2% are female

I love this woman such much! I wish I could talk to her one day!

Now I don't trust anyone. It makes me a fraid of love,friends,strangers . Worst part now I don't trust my self either.

I wish I would not pull away from other family and friends.